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I Miss My Ex-Boyfriend – Should I Get Him Back?

December 19, 2009  
Filed under Miss My Ex

i miss my ex boyfriendI miss my ex-boyfriend. I really do. Although it has been less than two months since we broke up, the feeling of yearning is still there. The pain is less, the intensity of it all has become somewhat a blur, but the yearning just refuses to go away.

I wake up thinking of him and I go to bed at night wondering what he may be up to. I feel there is still a kind of love for him, a sweetness that may be with me for years to come. The happy memories of me and him together also make it hard to forget this one person that has once been a part of my life.

Should I Get Him Back?



Many times I have asked myself whether I should try to get him back. After all, I miss my ex-boyfriend and as far as I know, he is not seriously involve with anyone at the moment. The only thing that is stopping me from trying to win my ex-boyfriend back is courage. I just don’t have the courage to try because I’m afraid of what the answer would be. I have gone through all the pain of a break up and I just don’t know if I can handle another disappointment so soon after such heartache.

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But I have given this issue of getting him back some serious thought and friends too have offered their advice. Basically, I think I should try to get my ex-boyfriend back if:

  1. I still love him.
  2. I can see a future together with him.
  3. All problems that led to our break up can be resolved.
  4. I can fulfill his expectations of what a partner should be.
  5. I can accept him as he is and not expect him to be what he is not.
  6. The chemistry is still there.

Conversely, I shouldn’t be thinking of getting him back if:

  1. I’m lonely and I just want his company.
  2. I don’t know what the future would hold and if I would be able to find someone else who loves me.
  3. I want him just because I can’t have him.
  4. I still don’t know exactly what I want in a partner.
  5. I’m unwilling to compromise on our problems.
  6. My mind is still clouded by strong emotions to make a rational decision.

It’s hard trying to decide what I should do although I miss my ex-boyfriend very much. A part of me wants to move on but another wants to give it another go. It’s the feeling that if I don’t try, I’ll never know what it could have been. After all, you could end up much happier the second time round compared to the first, right?

But if you don’t try at all, your chance at happiness with your ex-boyfriend doesn’t even exist. If you try, there is still a chance things might turn around. That is if you seize the opportunity now before your ex turns indifferent towards the relationship he once had with you. And he will one day very soon.

This is the fear that I have. That I’ll lose that one chance to get my ex back because I have yet to decide what to do. I guess I should make up my mind soon and if you are in the same situation as me, so should you. Don’t let an opportunity to reconcile slip us by because all we have is just that small time window before our exes move on!

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One Response to “I Miss My Ex-Boyfriend – Should I Get Him Back?”
  1. patience says:

    Wow, I know how you feel! Me and my ex became long distance friends and all, I let him go for about 4 months because I was tired of waiting, finally, he moved back, he showed up at an event that I was at and we have been talking since. Ba thing is, he was dealing with someone and now he wants to be with me. So look where I am…. However, I feel like he’s worth the wait and I believe that he really does want to be with me. You have to ask yourself if he’s worth it. All of your reasons why you should go after him are the same reasons I’m in the position I’m in……. go figure!!! wish you all the best!!!!

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