Is It So Hard To Get Over An Ex?

Everyone tells me that time will heal all wounds. That I can get over him if I keep myself busy and start seeing other guys. Him being my ex. The person that left me to do his own thing. He said he wanted a change as being with me is tying him down in a way that is becoming a little restrictive. He wants to be free. Whatever that means.

What makes getting over him so hard is because he is a great guy. He is honest and honesty is not something you can easily find anymore in a partner. I have friends who broke up because their partners were cheating and seeing others behind their backs. Mine wasn’t like that at all. That is why breaking up with him is so damn hard. How can you let go of a great guy, right? Someone that you have fallen in love with because of his personality and still do.

Maybe the chemistry is not there anymore. But can’t we at least try to bring back the spark? Why give it up? I asked but got no answer. So, I can only let go no matter how much I wanted it never to end. You can’t tie someone down when his heart is not there anymore. Or can you?

Salvaging The Relationship

Because according to this guy, almost all relationships can be salvaged:

“… it is my opinion that there are really no impossible situations. I have seen women not only wait on a man for months, but take back men that have spent years in prison…and… I have seen men take women back that have had MORE THAN ONE AFFAIR… And everything else in between!”

There are techniques and strategies to get back an ex, it seems. “Recipes” that can make your ex come back to you as mentioned by this same guy. Really? Have anyone given it a try?

Sometimes, I think that if getting over an ex is so hard and you are missing him terribly, there is really no harm in trying to get back together. And if you want him back, you will need to work for it using whatever strategies that might be available. Sitting around and brooding like me won’t make him come back. You will need to act, fast.

So, why am I still not salvaging this relationship when it is so hard getting over my ex? Frankly, I don’t know. Right now, I just know that I’m suffering and yes, it is hard getting over an ex. That’s about all my mind can process at this stage, I guess, given all the pain inside.